Affluence can
make us insular. We become impervious to the outside world. With our
material gain, we hoard our wealth and ignore people living on the edge
of society. They are the others and not our concern. But, imagine yourself
in such a position: how you would obtain food for your family, how you
would shelter them, how you would clothe them.
In her memoir,
Frances Riviere writes of how she persevered while growing up in southern
Alberta during the Great Depression. Circumstances bring the family
into a position where they struggle to survive. The
author writes about one of these circumstances, of her mother's estrangement
from her family for marrying Bob Riviere, a Metis. She goes on to explain
that her grandmother Burns ruled the Burns' household and that it was
only after her death that the family visited her grandfather Burns.
This family breach will move the younger Rivieres in a direction otherwise
not taken.
"We were different,"
Riviere writes, "and we were the same, sharing traits and practices
of both the native and the white races--a race caught between, and claimed
by neither." (15) It is much later that she learns that the neighbours
referred to the Rivieres as "those half-breeds up the creek." (16)
Riviere and her
siblings and parents subsist by berry picking, hunting--more than once
this turns to poaching--taming horses and taking up residence in abandoned
houses, often at her father's whim. Amiable, short-tempered and impractical
when it comes to money, Bob leaves the worry of paying bills to Mary,
Frances's mother.
Despite the hard
life she experiences, Frances enjoys aspects of her childhood. She speaks
of trailing her father everywhere (her other choice is to pick berries,
which she hated) and learns to love horses, a connection that will follow
her into adulthood. She cares for them, learning to rope and corral
them, and knows no fear 16 hands high above the ground.
She also learns
that you have to be tough to survive. It is this toughness that helps
her through the poverty that seems to pursue the Rivieres at every turn.
Later this toughness her father is so proud of leads to an inflexibility
that will alienate her brother Bobby and her from the family.
Raised in the bush
country, Frances is shy and hesitant about attending school: "I kept
my head down, hoping to divert attention" (10). And lunch consisting
of bannock, lard and baked beans does not endear her to the girls in
the school.
Her paternal grandfather,
"Frenchy," introduces her to Dickens and gives her Stories about
Children, which include the tale of Little Nell. Her love of reading
will become a life-long association with literature. Frenchy, living
like a hermit, is generous with his pension, giving a portion when he
can to Riviere's mother to help out the family. There are also accounts
of pets, several dogs, horses and a funny anecdote of a pet pig. Visits
and stays at the home of her Uncle James and Aunty Gay and several other
neighbours and relatives are frequent and enjoyable. Here Frances comes
to appreciate the love and understanding she is given, something she
will cherish.
In her teens,
she falls in love. The man is much older, to the chagrin of her parents.
Unbending in their views, they seek ways to obstruct her pursuit of
this love and their immutability drives Frances to seek a new life.
Eventually she goes to Calgary and furthers her education with the belief
it will raise her up from her much impoverished life.
It is not until
after her father's death that she finds peace; "I had a dream in which
he and I were together and happy. Next morning I awoke with a great
weight lifted from my shoulders" (210).
Reconciliation
with her mother is another matter. The poignant image of "a young woman
with dark wisps of hair falling about her perspiring face" remains with
us long after the closing of the book (211). This image is the one Frances
wants to keep despite the years of remoteness that existed between her
and her mother. And it is the image of love that remains.
Each chapter of
the memoir is filled with anecdotes, the kinds of stories we like to
cherish from childhood, and yet it also gives us an insight into a world
of hardship, a world dearth of monetary wealth. The narrative speaks
of endurance and the resiliency of the human spirit. The book is also
a journey towards healing. And that makes it worth the read.