I Have My Mother's
Eyes, subtitled A Holocaust Memoir Across the Generations,
is exactly that--a memoir of a young woman [Zosia Hoffenberg], written
mostly by her daughter [Barbara Ruth Bluman], but completed by her
daughter [Danielle Bluman Low (Schroeder)] after the untimely death
of Barbara Ruth Bluman. At the same time this book is more than a Holocaust
memoir, for it is also the story of Bluman's own battle against the
cancer that finally caused her death. And it is the story of how she
came to see how her own struggles and misfortunes sometimes mirrored
those of her mother. The story is told in two time frames, in alternating
sections, with the Holocaust story in the third person, and Bluman's
story in the first person.
The story begins
in the 1920s with Zosia as a young child in Warsaw, Poland, the youngest
of four in a devout Jewish family, apparently fairly well off, though
sometimes struggling to maintain their way of life. Although there is
some discrimination against Polish Jews, overall, Zosia's family is
happy, and, even when war with Germany threatens, sees no reason to
leave home and business behind.
By 1938, Zosia
is seventeen and enjoying life in Warsaw. Her older sisters had followed
the old tradition of being introduced to various suitors by a matchmaker,
before choosing one to marry. Zosia, however, had always insisted that
she would choose her own husband, and when she and Natek Blumen become
interested in each other, she had to fight parental pressure in order
to be allowed to consider him. Natek, however, is committed to going
to America for a year to study American business practices. While there
he comes to understand the seriousness of events in Europe, but Zosia
will not agree to leave her family to join him there. In the summer
of 1939 he returns to Warsaw to convince her to leave, arriving before
the German invasion on September 1--coinciding with Zosia's nineteenth
birthday.
The story follows
the pair's efforts to endure the bombing of Warsaw and then to escape.
The journey is a long one, via Soviet-held Poland, then Lithuania, east
across Siberia to Vladivostok, then by boat to Japan, and eventually
to Vancouver. Interesting details about the escape are given, particularly
the story of how Chiune Sugihara, the Japanese consul in Lithuania,
dared to disobey his superior officers in order to help Zosia and Natek,
and over 6,000 other Jews, flee from the Germans by providing them with
travel visas.
In alternating
sections, the story of Barbara Ruth Blumen is woven in, although many
of its details are lacking. What Blumen seeks to do is to show how in
some ways, besides inheriting her mother's eyes, she has had similar
struggles, though perhaps not such desperate ones. For instance, she,
too, had to argue with her parents to accept the man she wanted to marry,
Drew Schroeder, because he was a Gentile. Later in her life, her struggle
against cancer, and her determination never to give up, could in some
ways be seen to mirror Zosia's struggle to escape from Nazi Poland.
As she questions her mother to learn more details about the escape,
Blumen gathers the strength to fight her own battle.
In some places,
however, the details about Blumen's life almost become intrusions into
Zosia's story. Details of a camping trip with her husband seem out of
place in the story, and later the break-up of Blumen's marriage and
the period afterwards--while tragic in themselves--intrude on the other
story.
Zosia's story,
the main one, is well worth reading, though it is told in a fact-based
way, without much emotional depth. I would also have liked more details
about the ride on the Trans-Siberian Railway. The many pictures really
add to the story, as do the maps and the family tree. The latter is
necessary because of the large cast of characters. I would certainly
recommend this book.